Sets you asked me to answer, published as a webpage.

Questions:

1. What were you like when you were a kid?**
2. What are the things (not just material) you value the most?**
3. What are your boundaries? What are the things are considered crossing the line for you?***
4. What are your pet peeves?**
5. How would you like to be communicated? Your communication preferences?***

Answers:

1. It was unusual one actually. We lived sa Taytay, pero sa Pasig nag-aaral ng elementary. Siguro since my late pops wanted a high quality education since pilot school yung pinasukan ko noon, despite being a public school. So, I was used to wake up at super early (like mga 3am) just to prepare and commute pa-school. May service naman, pero the toll of fatigue was there. That said, I never had any elementary friends and never experienced being a normal kid. After school, nakakulong lang sa room and minsan tumatakas sa library na walang ibang gumagamit. Was honed to be an ideal kid, robbed of the moment of being a kid. Ganun talaga siguro pag anak ng politiko. Just got some sense of freedom nung around Grade 6 na (2 years after daddy's passing); however it was too late since it is already a pre-teen phase and too late to socialise. That said, I am considering myself na late bloomer sa mga bagay-bagay given na 'yun ang background na nakasanayan ko. In a nutshell, I'm a full blown nerd.
2. Well, onte lang naman.
   -For starters, 'yung tiwala na binigay sa akin ng isang tao (whether at work, personal, and in between)
   -When someone chose to spend time with me, since it kinds of connected sa first item. That thought alone na willing ka maupo or kahit naka tambay lang sa gilid and spend time to talk with me, I value it. Time is a kind of currency na 'di pwedeng bawiin or kitain ulit, it is more of deliberately choosing to spend it.
   -Lastly, are the people that I hold most dear (And that includes you too.). When someone or circustances wronged them, they can have my back.
   -FOOD. I love foods.
3. Uhmm.. Sige haha.
-I don't want to be micromanaged.
-I prefer to respect and honor the scheduled/plotted plan or activity, unless there is a extenuating circumstances that hinders the fulfillment of such.
-Sometimes, I need an alone time, just to decompress. I would like that to be respected. That is my way to prevent burn out and completely shutting down. Magsasabi naman ako.
-When I chose to trust you when I share something that I consider a secret, I decide to be vulnerable with you. Im asking not to weaponise that vulnerability back to me should a conflict arise. This goes on a two way street, so this boundary is reciprocated.
**Heads-up, wont hold a brake here** No pre-marital sex. I don't want that feeling of guilt after the deed, it was taxing and outright wrong. When we do it, we must be married na. And that was my intent in this dating journey we're having.
4. Pet peeves...
-Make things clear. KISS.
-PDA is okay, 'wag lang sobrang excessive or maala lingkis ahas na. Malagkit ako minsan, irritating lang sa pakiramdam haha
-Related sa first item, be direct on what you want or need. Di po ako manghuhula.
5. Comms... Same lang rin sa inyo. Pero this one is a bit organised lol
-Urgent and/or emergency, give me a phone call.
-Non-verbal comms are appreciated rin. Asking to acknowledge the message within reasonable timeframe. If napansin mo naman siguro, I frequently checking you in.
-Okay rin paminsan-minsan may call rin sana, whenever applicable naman. Its kind of sweet to hear a voice sometimes, lalo na when the situation hinders us to meet personally.
-I'm not asking rin to send the morning, afternoon, and evening greetings. We aint kids no more.